How to give women orgasms...

Let's begin...

I'm going to start things off here by telling you
what you really DON'T want to hear...

..And that's that there is NOT a single technique
that will ensure your woman's satisfaction.

Yes, it's true.

Techniques and thrusts are important but you'll get
much further by building a mood that eventually
sends her over the edge.

It's a bit difficult for us men to grasp, since a
warm vagina, or even a fist full of hand lotion,
is all it really takes to get where you need to be.

Just know that all of the kissing, touching,
licking, and caressing are vital parts for an
orgasm, not just stuff you do until you cum, if not
MORE important than the act of love making itself.

Over the following newsletter lesson's you'll learn
things to do with all aspects of lovemaking and
how to give your lady the best experience possible.

For now, perhaps a better understanding of the phases
a woman goes through to reach orgasm is in order.


PHASE I: THE BEGINNING

This is the part when she just decided she wants to
have sex. Her breathing is slightly heavier than
normal, and her pulse has quickened. Some serious
making out just may be in order at this point.

Let your hands wander all over her body. Run your
fingers through her hair, stroke her back, and even
get in a bit of nipple play. If your hands head
south of the border, avoid direct contact with her
clit. Use slow, gentle strokes. Rubbing your palm
slowly and deeply over her vaginal lips is a great
way to give her a hint of what's to come without
irritating her lady bits.


PHASE II: THE BUILD UP

Now things are really getting heated up. Her
breathing has turned into almost a pant, and she's
probably let out some audible moans. In this phase,
you can make more direct contact with the clitoris,
but don't just hang out there. Keep that indirect
contact going, but brush the head of the clit every
once in a while. Rub the sides along the shaft, and
then pinch the head. You can also vary strokes and
speeds at this point. You may want to rub the head
of the clit in a circular motion at a high
frequency, and then slowly rub the shaft up and
down. However you want to do it, just play!


PHASE III: THE BIG FINISH

Phase III is typically signaled by her screaming,
"Faster! Faster!" Now is not the time to mess
around. Get in there, and get the job done! Zero in
on that one spot, and rub it like you mean it! Use
quick, circular motions right on the head of the
clitoris until you hear her scream in ecstasy.

So that's it for today.

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Secret Plan to 'Get Your Love Back'

So now that you know all the things to avoid when you want your love back, it's important that you take action right now to work on these changes. Now here is a simple guideline to follow that will help you get your love back:

As I have mentioned, it’s important to have a well-structured plan if you want your love back. This is by no means an in-depth step-by-step of the process but it will get you well on your way.

#1 - Resist making the mistakes listed above and agree with the break up.

Being agreeable to your partner will show them that you ARE listening to their needs and you’re mature enough to handle the break up.

#2 - Limit contact.

If you’re separated, either temporarily or officially, limit how much you communicate with your ex for now. Use this time to gain another perspective on your situation and for the air to settle.

If you’re still together but things are bleak, talk reasonably with your partner about what you’re feeling and where the relationship may be going. Remember although this may lead to a break up, it’s better to know now than to constantly question and worry about the outcome of your relationship.
Either way you need to have a heart-to-heart with your partner and find out exactly what each of you want, and what you’re willing to do to keep the relationship moving forward.

#3 - Keep busy and re-evaluate your life goals and ambitions.

The best way to recover or heal from a break up is to refocus your life around other priorities that might have been neglected during your relationship. Use this time to improve your health, get fit, improve your finances and reconnect with friends and families.

Here are some ideas:

# Start a blog - blogging about things you're interested is a great way to refocus your life.

# Learn a new musicial instrument – or if you have slacked off from previous musical interests, this could be a nice time to start.

# Lose weight and get fit – not only can you start to gain confidence from exercising and eating healthy, moving your body is also a natural antidepressant.

# Make some extra money online . - Making some extra bit of money can be very rewarding and quite fun.

# Start dating casually . - Have some fun by going out and meeting new people.

# Learn to speak a new language .

# Join an interest club or meet . - Meet up with people with similar interests.

# Participate actively in online communities . Helping others with their problems will make it easier for you to cope with yours.

# Read a book .

# Start a novel .

#4 - Keep your eye open for new love and new opportunities.

As much as it will hurt to move on from your partner, it’s deadly to cling onto hope. Don’t place the fate of your happiness in someone else’s hands. Start to take control of your life and move onto better opportunities.

#5 – Re-establish a connection

Slowly increase contact with your partner. Remember though it's very important you have a period of no contact or limited contact to put things into perspective.

There are no set number of days you should wait but if you really want a number to follow, most will suggest 30 days. I recommend no contact for at least 30 days, after which you can get back into your ex's life. The thing is to take things slowly! Don't jump if they show you the slightest bit of interest and certainly don't sleep with them before you're officially back together!

Here I've listed some of excellent resources for bringing back lost love:

Magic of Making Up - Easy to follow and fast working method for men & women.

How to Get Her Back For Good – Excellent resource for men looking to reunite with his woman.

Save My Marriage Today – Most comprehensive resource for marriages in danger.

The Secret to Understanding You

Although it helps to understand what women and men want and need out of a relationship, it’s important for you to assess where it all went wrong in your own relationship. Often there are multiple issues being the cause for your relationship troubles. You need to assess the damage and acknowledge where the problem lies.

Is it a communication problem? Do you find yourself constantly arguing about trivial matters or problems aroused from misunderstandings?

Or are you simply too different in terms of your life goals and ambitions?

Are there outside forces tearing you apart? Or has your relationship simply turned stale and lifeless?

Pinpoint the issues and jot them down. Stop yourself from wanting to blame, instead look at where the miscommunications lie and how things can be improved. Would it help if you both were honest and upfront about your feelings? Are you willing to compromise for the sake of the relationship? Is your ex or your partner willing to compromise?

What Men Desires

Although men and women aren’t much different in the sense that we all want to be loved and appreciated by our partners, conflict is most evident in the way men and women choose to communicate with one another in a relationship.

The truth is the male brain is actually extremely different to the female brain, and the more you understand how men think, the more success you will have with communicating with them.

In the prehistoric times men assumed the role of hunter. As a result they developed a brain better suited for assessing situation, calculating speed, tracking and mapping…in other words the logical side of the brain. This can definitely explain why modern men take better to video games, sports, golf and other more technical activities such as using computers.

Of course this doesn’t mean to say all men are into these things but as a general rule,these are the things their brains are more wired to do.

It’s also why most men need to feel like the masculine heroine in the relationship. They want to feel needed and admired. They want to be the protector in the relationship. At the same time women also buy into this stereotype that their man SHOULD be the provider.

Too often the ideal male image can poison a relationship. When women find their partner not quite living up to their ideal, they only end up blaming, nagging, judging and nitpicking at everything the man is doing WRONG. This will only make the man feel resentful, bitter and undervalued.

Once they feel they’re lower than the role they believe they should play in a relationship, they will leave that relationship for someone who WILL appreciate and admire them.

Men also need their space and 'quiet' time. Unlike women, men like to chill out and in a sense, go into meditative-mode after a hard day's work. This is why men, after coming home from work, would rather relax in front of the tv, read the news or browse the internet. Women on the other hand, would much rather talk about their day as a way to unwind.

Women also tend to think their man should just 'know' what is on their mind. These women will be coy, indirect or drop hints in the hopes their man will just 'get it'. Then when their man doesn't get it, the woman becomes grumpy and upset instead. If you find yourself doing this, do yourself and your man a favour and be direct and open about what it is on your mind instead.

Being too needy, available and dependent on your man will only make him feel trapped. If a man feels trapped, he will build a feeling of resentment for the woman. Trivial issues get blown out of proportion and eventually the man will be criticizing the woman's every move as being too controlling.

A man isn't attracted to a woman because she doesn't have a life outside of him, he's attracted to a woman who is independent, self-respected and has the ability to speak her mind.

Understanding men is key to getting what you want out of them. If you have lost the ability to communicate efficiently with your man, keep in mind the things they most desire from the relationship and work on bringing that out in you.