So now that you know all the things to avoid when you want your love back, it's important that you take action right now to work on these changes. Now here is a simple guideline to follow that will help you get your love back:
As I have mentioned, it’s important to have a well-structured plan if you want your love back. This is by no means an in-depth step-by-step of the process but it will get you well on your way.
#1 - Resist making the mistakes listed above and agree with the break up.
Being agreeable to your partner will show them that you ARE listening to their needs and you’re mature enough to handle the break up.
#2 - Limit contact.
If you’re separated, either temporarily or officially, limit how much you communicate with your ex for now. Use this time to gain another perspective on your situation and for the air to settle.
If you’re still together but things are bleak, talk reasonably with your partner about what you’re feeling and where the relationship may be going. Remember although this may lead to a break up, it’s better to know now than to constantly question and worry about the outcome of your relationship.
Either way you need to have a heart-to-heart with your partner and find out exactly what each of you want, and what you’re willing to do to keep the relationship moving forward.
#3 - Keep busy and re-evaluate your life goals and ambitions.
The best way to recover or heal from a break up is to refocus your life around other priorities that might have been neglected during your relationship. Use this time to improve your health, get fit, improve your finances and reconnect with friends and families.
Here are some ideas:
# Start a blog - blogging about things you're interested is a great way to refocus your life.
# Learn a new musicial instrument – or if you have slacked off from previous musical interests, this could be a nice time to start.
# Lose weight and get fit – not only can you start to gain confidence from exercising and eating healthy, moving your body is also a natural antidepressant.
# Make some extra money online . - Making some extra bit of money can be very rewarding and quite fun.
# Start dating casually . - Have some fun by going out and meeting new people.
# Learn to speak a new language .
# Join an interest club or meet . - Meet up with people with similar interests.
# Participate actively in online communities . Helping others with their problems will make it easier for you to cope with yours.
# Read a book .
# Start a novel .
#4 - Keep your eye open for new love and new opportunities.
As much as it will hurt to move on from your partner, it’s deadly to cling onto hope. Don’t place the fate of your happiness in someone else’s hands. Start to take control of your life and move onto better opportunities.
#5 – Re-establish a connection
Slowly increase contact with your partner. Remember though it's very important you have a period of no contact or limited contact to put things into perspective.
There are no set number of days you should wait but if you really want a number to follow, most will suggest 30 days. I recommend no contact for at least 30 days, after which you can get back into your ex's life. The thing is to take things slowly! Don't jump if they show you the slightest bit of interest and certainly don't sleep with them before you're officially back together!
Here I've listed some of excellent resources for bringing back lost love:
Magic of Making Up - Easy to follow and fast working method for men & women.
How to Get Her Back For Good – Excellent resource for men looking to reunite with his woman.
Save My Marriage Today – Most comprehensive resource for marriages in danger.
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