Monday, December 15, 2008
The Emotional Female – What Women Craves
In contrast to men, women are naturally more in-tune with their emotions and feelings. They’re better at spotting detail and reading body language. Women, as the nurturer, tend to want to take care of things. Women feel men are like children, who need a woman to take care of them.
It’s because women are usually the ones to look after and care for their man, they can start to feel under-appreciated when their efforts are not acknowledged. While men are busy trying to be the ‘man’ of the relationship, they fail to appreciate or notice the little things women do for them.
Once a woman feels she isn’t loved or appreciated anymore, she’ll soon start to look elsewhere. In the same respect, if she feels the man isn’t providing enough for her (support, security, love etc), she’ll also feel inclined to look for those things elsewhere.
Men might want to say women are confusing and because their actions doesn't always make sense, some may even call women evil.
Women are much more emotion-driven than men. This can certainly make their reasoning and actions seem rather spontaneous and difficult. Women also have a wild side that likes to be entertained. They love surprises, challenges and adventures. They would rather not plan everything miraculously before actually doing it... eg going out for dinner.
In the heart of all women, they dream of their knight to swept them off their feet and take them away from predictability of life. All that means is they want their man to be spontaneous, romantic and take action without needing to be asked.
Women also tend to notice the details. They care more for small sweet gestures on a regular basis than grand gestures that happen in a blue moon. They love to be hugged, kissed and flirted with everyday if possible.
Are they too much work? They don't need to be but if men mistakenly feel once they have done all the hard work of getting the woman, he can slowly stop trying anymore. The truth is, the courting process should never end. Not for a woman at least. If you want her heart, you need to constantly woo and date your woman. Sex also means different things to a woman. Women associate a lot of love and emotions towards sex. Whether they want to or not, women will always become attached to whomever they share the bed with.
The problem with women can be equally said about men. They fail to think men are men and therefore communicate as if they are a woman. Men does exactly the same thing, and because of this, a lot of conflict, confusion and misunderstanding will develop.
The best way to communicate is to keep in mind that they DO think differently. Pay more attention to the details. What women say is rarely what they truly mean, this will be a hard one to crack but if you play emotional detective, you'll be able to sense what she truly is thinking from her body language and her actions.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
What Men Desires
Although men and women aren’t much different in the sense that we all want to be loved and appreciated by our partners, conflict is most evident in the way men and women choose to communicate with one another in a relationship.
The truth is the male brain is actually extremely different to the female brain, and the more you understand how men think, the more success you will have with communicating with them.
In the prehistoric times men assumed the role of hunter. As a result they developed a brain better suited for assessing situation, calculating speed, tracking and mapping…in other words the logical side of the brain. This can definitely explain why modern men take better to video games, sports, golf and other more technical activities such as using computers.
Of course this doesn’t mean to say all men are into these things but as a general rule,these are the things their brains are more wired to do.
It’s also why most men need to feel like the masculine heroine in the relationship. They want to feel needed and admired. They want to be the protector in the relationship. At the same time women also buy into this stereotype that their man SHOULD be the provider.
Too often the ideal male image can poison a relationship. When women find their partner not quite living up to their ideal, they only end up blaming, nagging, judging and nitpicking at everything the man is doing WRONG. This will only make the man feel resentful, bitter and undervalued.
Once they feel they’re lower than the role they believe they should play in a relationship, they will leave that relationship for someone who WILL appreciate and admire them.
Men also need their space and 'quiet' time. Unlike women, men like to chill out and in a sense, go into meditative-mode after a hard day's work. This is why men, after coming home from work, would rather relax in front of the tv, read the news or browse the internet. Women on the other hand, would much rather talk about their day as a way to unwind.
Women also tend to think their man should just 'know' what is on their mind. These women will be coy, indirect or drop hints in the hopes their man will just 'get it'. Then when their man doesn't get it, the woman becomes grumpy and upset instead. If you find yourself doing this, do yourself and your man a favour and be direct and open about what it is on your mind instead.
Being too needy, available and dependent on your man will only make him feel trapped. If a man feels trapped, he will build a feeling of resentment for the woman. Trivial issues get blown out of proportion and eventually the man will be criticizing the woman's every move as being too controlling.
A man isn't attracted to a woman because she doesn't have a life outside of him, he's attracted to a woman who is independent, self-respected and has the ability to speak her mind.
Understanding men is key to getting what you want out of them. If you have lost the ability to communicate efficiently with your man, keep in mind the things they most desire from the relationship and work on bringing that out in you.
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Making love is a deeper commitment
Making love is a deeper commitment made by 'both' people. When does that happen? Making Love is part of that work. I'd like men who read it to think about how thoughtless and indifferent they are to women sexually. Making love is not simply a spontaneous happening between two people sympathizing. Making love is also relating to the world at large as well historically as to the future: love breaks open all limitations of the vision of selfinterest: it is recognized in all and everything.
Making love poems are for those who first fall in love. Love poems help in sharing the emotions of the heart. Making love is a sexual activity that expresses the love, passion, care and other strong feelings you have for another person. It is a beautiful and emotional experience that can bring two people closer and closer together.
Relationships can be the source of great joy or great pain. They seldom stand still; they're either getting better or getting worse. Relationships often begin with openness and heartfelt connection, but over time this connection can be lost among miscommunication, a lack of mutual support, and a loss of affection. But love can last, says David Richo, and in this dynamic workshop he shows us how.In encouraging terms, Richo reveals how we can strengthen our relationships using two basic approaches: using Western psychotherapy, we can identify self-defeating patterns in our relationships and uncover their sources, and by cultivating mindfulness we can learn to be with life just as it is.
Sexual intimacy is meant to be shared by two people who love one another in the context of marriage. Because this is the deepest form of sharing between two people, and because there is an emotional bond that takes place when two people are intimate with each other. Sexual playfulness is vital for continuing to experience each other as lovers. We both feel free to be ourselves.
Instead of rejoicing in the presence of our beloved, we find ourselves alone, or worse yet, alone in the presence of the person we are supposed to be in love with. We might even become cynical about love and think that romance is just a fantasy made up by advertisers and Hollywood producers. Instead, Stonecipher was apparently ousted because he had an affair with a female executive at the besieged company. Stonecipher is married; the female executive is divorced. Instead of taking the time to make your own demiglaze sauce, which takes anywhere from 8-30 hours depending on the chef, use simple brown gravy packets and follow the other steps for the same result. The consumer I can guarantee will not have access to the same plateware, but use whatever you have to garnish the dishes as you like.
Sex, therefore, played an extensive role in the war experience. Whether it was pin-ups of Hollywood stars, well-thumbed pictures of 'the girl back home', 'Rosie the Riveter', the archetypal female factory workers, or women pilots, World War II acquired an undeniably feminine aspect. Sex without love will never be ultimately satisfying, but sex that grows out of love will take a marriage to a whole new level of satisfaction. In his trademark simple, straightforward style, Dr. Sexual activity can vary widely from discomfort during intercourse, lack of sexual interest, to unbelievable sexual encounters. Because of the emotional, physical, and hormonal changes, a couple's sexual life can be altered dramatically.
Making love poems are for those who first fall in love. Love poems help in sharing the emotions of the heart. Making love is a sexual activity that expresses the love, passion, care and other strong feelings you have for another person. It is a beautiful and emotional experience that can bring two people closer and closer together.
Relationships can be the source of great joy or great pain. They seldom stand still; they're either getting better or getting worse. Relationships often begin with openness and heartfelt connection, but over time this connection can be lost among miscommunication, a lack of mutual support, and a loss of affection. But love can last, says David Richo, and in this dynamic workshop he shows us how.In encouraging terms, Richo reveals how we can strengthen our relationships using two basic approaches: using Western psychotherapy, we can identify self-defeating patterns in our relationships and uncover their sources, and by cultivating mindfulness we can learn to be with life just as it is.
Sexual intimacy is meant to be shared by two people who love one another in the context of marriage. Because this is the deepest form of sharing between two people, and because there is an emotional bond that takes place when two people are intimate with each other. Sexual playfulness is vital for continuing to experience each other as lovers. We both feel free to be ourselves.
Instead of rejoicing in the presence of our beloved, we find ourselves alone, or worse yet, alone in the presence of the person we are supposed to be in love with. We might even become cynical about love and think that romance is just a fantasy made up by advertisers and Hollywood producers. Instead, Stonecipher was apparently ousted because he had an affair with a female executive at the besieged company. Stonecipher is married; the female executive is divorced. Instead of taking the time to make your own demiglaze sauce, which takes anywhere from 8-30 hours depending on the chef, use simple brown gravy packets and follow the other steps for the same result. The consumer I can guarantee will not have access to the same plateware, but use whatever you have to garnish the dishes as you like.
Sex, therefore, played an extensive role in the war experience. Whether it was pin-ups of Hollywood stars, well-thumbed pictures of 'the girl back home', 'Rosie the Riveter', the archetypal female factory workers, or women pilots, World War II acquired an undeniably feminine aspect. Sex without love will never be ultimately satisfying, but sex that grows out of love will take a marriage to a whole new level of satisfaction. In his trademark simple, straightforward style, Dr. Sexual activity can vary widely from discomfort during intercourse, lack of sexual interest, to unbelievable sexual encounters. Because of the emotional, physical, and hormonal changes, a couple's sexual life can be altered dramatically.
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Is there any love left to salvage?
Have you just had your heart broken? Does your partner act like he or she doesn’t love you anymore? Do you feel like you’re the only one trying? Are you and your partner constantly at war with one another?
Is there any love left to salvage?
If you're reading this still then either you fear your relationship is about to end or one of you has already called it quits. Despite which circumstance it may be, you are in the midst of a relationship transition.
One of two things needs to happen… either you can get your love back or... accept you're just not meant to be together at this time.
One of two things needs to happen… either you can get your love back or... accept you're just not meant to be together at this time.
I’m the first to admit that not every relationship end because of incompatibility. Sometimes there’s still plenty of love between two people but the timing is just not right. Often it’s because the people involved assume love is enough when things such as the ability to communicate efficiently or willingness to compromise are what is killing the relationship.
Whether you want to admit it or not you’re at a crossroad and you will soon need to decide which path you’re headed towards.
Sometimes it's necessarily to at least know you've tried all you could before you can get the closure you need to start moving on. I'm going to give you all the help and resources you need to gain control of your life again.
Keep visiting this dedicated love blog.
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Monday, September 29, 2008
Lyric - A Lover's Question
A Lover's Question
Artist : Clyde McPhatter
Title : A Lover's Question
Album : Live At The Apollo
Does she love me, with all her heart
should I worry, when we're apart
it's a lover's question, I'd like to know.
Does she need me, as she pretends
is this a game, well then will I win
it's a lover's question, I'd like to know
I'd like to know when she's not with me
if she's still true to me
I'd like to know when we're kissing
does she feel just what I feel,
and how am I to know it's really real.
Oh, tell me where, the answer lies
is it in her kiss or in her eyes
it's a lover's question I'd like to know.
I'd like to know when she's not with me
if she's still true to me
I'd like to know when we're kissing
does she feel just what I feel,
and how am I to know it's really real.
Oh, tell me where, the answer lies
is it in her kiss or in her eyes
it's a lover's question I'd like to know.
Artist : Clyde McPhatter
Title : A Lover's Question
Album : Live At The Apollo
Does she love me, with all her heart
should I worry, when we're apart
it's a lover's question, I'd like to know.
Does she need me, as she pretends
is this a game, well then will I win
it's a lover's question, I'd like to know
I'd like to know when she's not with me
if she's still true to me
I'd like to know when we're kissing
does she feel just what I feel,
and how am I to know it's really real.
Oh, tell me where, the answer lies
is it in her kiss or in her eyes
it's a lover's question I'd like to know.
I'd like to know when she's not with me
if she's still true to me
I'd like to know when we're kissing
does she feel just what I feel,
and how am I to know it's really real.
Oh, tell me where, the answer lies
is it in her kiss or in her eyes
it's a lover's question I'd like to know.
Monday, September 22, 2008
10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship
By Michael Webb
10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?
You’re not alone.
Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.
Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:
1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.
2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.
3. FUN WITH WATER
On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.
4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST
Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.
6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.
7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH
Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.
8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT
Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.
9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER
Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."
10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING
Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.
Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:
500 Love Making Tips
10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?
You’re not alone.
Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.
Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:
1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.
2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.
3. FUN WITH WATER
On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.
4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST
Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.
6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.
7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH
Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.
8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT
Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.
9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER
Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."
10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING
Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.
Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:
500 Love Making Tips
500 Love Making Tips
500 Love Making Tips
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Happy Love making with "500 Love Making Tips".
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