10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship

By Michael Webb
10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship

Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?

You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.

3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.

8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.

9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."

10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:

Is there any best love making music?

Some good slow love songs:

Innocente (DJ Tiesto edit) - Delerium
Nice and Slow - Usher
Oh - Omarion
I'll Make Love to You - Boys II Men
Take You Down - Chris Brown
Falsetto - the Dream
Bed - J. Holiday
It's Yours - J. Holiday
Any songs by Marvin Gaye
Any songs by Barry White
Rock the Boat - Aliyah
Until the End of Time - Justin Timberlake & Beyonce
Sexy Love - Neyo
Because of You - Neyo
Your Body - Pretty Ricky
Addicted - Saving Abel
Love Song - 311
Girl I Want to Make You Sweat - UB40
You Are the One - HIM
Beautiful - HIM
Right Here in My Arms - HIM
Hearts Burst Into Fire - Bullet for My Valentine
Forever and Always - Bullet for My Valentine
(I know Bullet may be kinda ironic to choose for Valentine's Day, but those two songs aren't their usual screamo stuff.)
... and stuff along those lines.

Fast love songs for ... well, you know what:

Who's Your Daddy - Benny Benassi
Satisfaction - Benny Bennassi
Crazy ***** - Buckcherry
Bad Girlfriend - Theory of a Deadman
Shakin' Hands - Nickelback
Something in Your Mouth - Nickelback
What's Your Fantasy - Ludacris
S.E.X. - Nickelback
Lapdance - Nerd
She Wants to Move - Nerd
and other stuff too, just google "love making playlist" or something along those lines and I'm sure you'll find something.

Have fun! And don't forget to use protection on your tool ;)

How to give women orgasms...

Let's begin...

I'm going to start things off here by telling you
what you really DON'T want to hear...

..And that's that there is NOT a single technique
that will ensure your woman's satisfaction.

Yes, it's true.

Techniques and thrusts are important but you'll get
much further by building a mood that eventually
sends her over the edge.

It's a bit difficult for us men to grasp, since a
warm vagina, or even a fist full of hand lotion,
is all it really takes to get where you need to be.

Just know that all of the kissing, touching,
licking, and caressing are vital parts for an
orgasm, not just stuff you do until you cum, if not
MORE important than the act of love making itself.

Over the following newsletter lesson's you'll learn
things to do with all aspects of lovemaking and
how to give your lady the best experience possible.

For now, perhaps a better understanding of the phases
a woman goes through to reach orgasm is in order.


PHASE I: THE BEGINNING

This is the part when she just decided she wants to
have sex. Her breathing is slightly heavier than
normal, and her pulse has quickened. Some serious
making out just may be in order at this point.

Let your hands wander all over her body. Run your
fingers through her hair, stroke her back, and even
get in a bit of nipple play. If your hands head
south of the border, avoid direct contact with her
clit. Use slow, gentle strokes. Rubbing your palm
slowly and deeply over her vaginal lips is a great
way to give her a hint of what's to come without
irritating her lady bits.


PHASE II: THE BUILD UP

Now things are really getting heated up. Her
breathing has turned into almost a pant, and she's
probably let out some audible moans. In this phase,
you can make more direct contact with the clitoris,
but don't just hang out there. Keep that indirect
contact going, but brush the head of the clit every
once in a while. Rub the sides along the shaft, and
then pinch the head. You can also vary strokes and
speeds at this point. You may want to rub the head
of the clit in a circular motion at a high
frequency, and then slowly rub the shaft up and
down. However you want to do it, just play!


PHASE III: THE BIG FINISH

Phase III is typically signaled by her screaming,
"Faster! Faster!" Now is not the time to mess
around. Get in there, and get the job done! Zero in
on that one spot, and rub it like you mean it! Use
quick, circular motions right on the head of the
clitoris until you hear her scream in ecstasy.

So that's it for today.

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